Children and Families

Children and youth are a welcome and integral part of our worshipping and community life. 

MISSION STATEMENT  

Nurturing children and youth in a Christ-centred spirituality that is
rooted in an open-hearted, open-minded, and affirming 
community of faithful journeying toward moments of discovery and awareness. 

 SUNDAY MORNINGS 

Children gather with their families in the main sanctuary for the start of community worship which includes choral music and congregational singing, opening prayers and passing of the peace. Then about 15 minutes into the worship service, all children are invited to the front where a child is invited to come forward and light the Christ Candle.

Children then have the option to leave with our Children’s Church staff for age-specific programming as follows:

INFANTS 

Infants are welcome to stay in the service with their parents or can be taken, accompanied by a parent or guardian, into the toddler room where there is a change mat, washroom and rocking chair.  Breastfeeding of infants is welcome in the sanctuary at the parent’s discretion.

TODDLERS  (18m-3 years)

Location: The Vestry/Toddler Room through the doors at the doors at the front left of the sanctuary

Leaders:  Clarissa    & Volunteers

Toddlers can be dropped off in the staffed Vestry (cum Toddler Room) which is located through the doors at the front left of the sanctuary).    The toddler room is run on a co-op model with parents and/or guardians signing up to assist the director on a rotating schedule.  Toddler Room staff lead the young children with age-appropriate Bible (and other sacred) stories,  spiritual songs, and simple crafts with lots of opportunity for free play. Toddlers can be picked up at the end of the service though will only be released to adults who have been named on the sign-in/sign-out form.

ELEMENTARY (AGES 4-12)  

This age group has two programming options which are pre-selected at the start of each new season (Fall and Winter)

OPTION 1:  GODLY PLAY                                                                               

Location: Youth Room (Basement level of the Centre for Peace)

Leaders:  Mary Toth, Elysia Feaver, Mary Cobban, Stephen Tanner, Sheila

One of the reasons Godly Play has such staying power as an educational program for children of all ages is that is invites hands-on interaction with handmade pieces of the biblical story. This makes learning concrete and intimate for kids. It invites them to ponder the realms of mystery that are too often lost in religious rhetoric. God’s Story “comes together”, as it were, and they begin to see where the story of their lives fits into that larger story.
This fall we are excited to extend the age group from 4-6 year olds, to 3-12 year olds as an alternative for kids who may prefer the more contemplative nature of this program to the more interactive and physically-active alternative of Burrard St. Story Guild. For more information on Godly Play contact Mary Toth (children@canadianmemorial.org) or come to the registration table on September 16.

OPTION 2:  BURRARD ST. STORY GUILD

Location:  The Fireside Room (2nd Floor of the Centre for Peace)

Leaders: Tama Ward, Robyn Williams

A program unique to CMUC Burrard St. Story Guild had its inaugural launch in the spring of 2018 with its storytelling of the prophet Jonah. Story Guild uses theatre arts to invite children (ages 3-12) into the stories of the Hebrew and Christian traditions. Participants are given lots of options as regards the extent of their involvement on the stage (depending on confidence and skill levels), yet regardless of experience or training (none required) all the participants work together to build a storytelling event that touches the hearts of young and old alike.

Rehearsals for the Story Guild productions take place on Sunday mornings from 10:45-11:30.

Registration for the upcoming season taking place at the Fall Kick-Off on Sunday, September 16, 2018.

Children can be picked up from their program spaces at 11:30.

AFTER SERVICE IN THE GREAT HALL

The south end of the Great Hall is the place to be post-service.  Tables with colouring sheets are left out in the hope that seniors,  introverts, teens, parents,  kids, extroverts, newcomers, old-timers and everyone in-between will come over, chit-chat, eat cookies, colour, make new connections or simply enjoy quiet in the company of other.  

SPECIAL SERVICES

Special days of celebration in the church year (Christmas, Good Friday, Easter, Pentecost) call for all ages to their creative energies to make the celebration memorable.  A drop-in pageant on Christmas Eve for families, a parade with larger than life palm fronds on Palm Sunday, the nailing or prayers to a cross, a treasure hunt on Easter Sunday are examples of ways we have marked these important days together. Share your own ideas and come prepared to join in with these storied events in the life of the church.

THE KIDS GARDEN, EARTH DAY & A HARVEST FESTIVAL

Care for the earth is a core spiritual value in our work with kids at CMUC.  To develop our connection with the earth and deepen our understanding of how it cares for us, and allows us to care for it, we have a garden that the children plant, tend and harvest, led by our very own master gardener, Carol.  The gardening season wraps up with an Ingathering Festival early in the fall.  Earth Day is a day of special focus and celebration at CMUC with prayers and practises that nurture children’s gratitude for our planet home.

MIDWEEK 

TOT DROP-IN

Location:Great Hall in the Centre for Peace

Leader:  Michelle Cobban

Day & Time: Thursday mornings, 10-12

Open to all ages from babies to preschool, this is a more peaceful playgroup for your littlest ones or those who prefer a bit less stimulation. We will have a professional story time with songs and stories and puppets at every session, also tea/coffee and snacks (by donation). There is no religious content in the program, we are open to all. Just come and play and connect!

YOUTH (Grades 8-12)

Regular Fridays

Location:  Fireside Room in the Centre for Peace (1825

Leaders:  Tama Ward and Sarah Lyons

1st & 3rd Fridays                          Games, Snacks, Pop Culture & The School of Love                                     All youth are invited to chill after a long week and enjoy low-key  games and activities to build community, eat snacks, discuss youth culture alongside the teachings of Jesus and spiritual practises (“The School of Love”)

 

 2nd Friday                                         Justice and Service                         Once a month the youth visit a part of their own city to learn about the social and political needs of others and where possible provide acts of service as a way of giving back toward the well-being of all.

 

 

4th Friday                                                      Body Prayer                                     Engaging exercises and activities that enable teens to explore their spiritual selves through movement, breath, yoga practises, body image conversation, cooking, eating and other fun with food.  –  Led by Joanna Brewster and Sarah Lyons  

Retreats

Throughout the year CMUC youth are invited to participate in denominational led retreats that take place variously at Cultus Lake, Naramata Retreat Centre and Camp Fircom on Gambier Island.  These 2-3 day retreats provide a great opportunity for youth to meet peers from other youth groups across the province and deepen their own experience of God and exploration of their gifts and unique value in the larger church community.     Leaders from CMUC attend with our teens to provide away-from home support and follow-up.    Retreat opportunities are posted throughout the year and bursaries available at registration.

Confirmation & Mentorship

Beginning in January 2019 there will be a confirmation process for teens who want to publicly affirm their commitment to a life of faith.

This will involve a weekend retreat at CMUC, a few Sunday morning gatherings, and the opportunity to be grouped (1:2) with an adult mentor in the congregation.

For more information or to express your interest contact Tama or Sarah.

FAMILIES

FAMILY BREAKFASTS

Family breakfasts are held 3 times a year (fall, winter and spring) and are designed to give parents and caregivers an opportunity to get to know each other and share their struggles, hopes and insights for nurturing faith in the home.  The breakfasts are potluck and are held Sunday mornings before church.   While the adults meet together kids enjoy an extended morning together to do a larger scale art project or other group activity.

Next Family Breakfast:

WORKSHOPS

Two workshops to equip the development of faith at home and to further deepen our programming for Children and Youth at CMUC are planned for the coming year:

FALL WORKSHOP, October
Seamless Inclusion: Creating a Culture of Affirmation for Children, Youth & Families at CMUC (Facilitators TBA)

In June 2018 the church voted to become an affirming church with the United Church of Canada.  For Children & Youth programming this means developing a culture of inclusivity of same-sex and single-parent families that flows seamlessly at all levels of our shared life, from lessons to conversation to visual resources and so forth.  This workshop will be an important opportunity to work toward this goal as we share with each other our own experiences, best practises, and favourite resources.

SPRING WORKSHOP: 
Gentle Parenting  (Facilitator: Mary Toth)

RESOURCES

Bibles

Sacred stories, told well, can become lifelong inner compasses for our children, enabling them to pass through times of loss and grief, hope and longing when needed.  To that end we are committed at CMUC to equip families with good Bible story books that enable children to engage the stories at age appropriate levels and find the spiritual value of the ancient texts that lie at the heart of the Hebrew and Jewish traditions.  If you don’t currently have an age-appropriate Bible in your home that your feel confident reading with your child speak to one of the leaders who will be happy to supply you with one.

Library  

The church library has a wonderfully stocked section of story books, both Christian and more broadly spiritual content, as well as books of nurturing faith in the home, the spiritual life of children, etc.   Please get to know Catherine (the church librarian) and acquaint yourself with the collection she has gathered over many years.   A few books will be on display every Sunday at the south end of the Great Hall colouring tables for parents and kids to browse (and check-out if so inspired!)

Bulletin Boards

Don’t forget to visit the bulletins in the hallway on the main floor of the Centre for Peace for printed announcements of denominationsl led and wider community events that may be of interest in the spiritual life of your child or teen.

CAMP FIRCOM ANNUAL RETREAT

Save the date!  May 24 – May 26, 2019

WAYS TO BE INVOLVED

Volunteer

New volunteers are always welcome in all our programs.  If you like hanging out with kids, want to share a skill, or want to benefit from the spiritual insight from children and youth we’d love to hear from you.  NOTE: There is an application and training process for all new volunteers.  Speak to any of the leaders to express your interest.

Pray with Us  

Being with kids for Sunday morning programming means giving up the opportunity to hear the sermon and prayers that are a part of the main service of worship.  By way of compensation (!) and by way of building community and nurturing our own inner worlds all Chidren’s Church leaders are welcome to gather in the Fireside Room from 9:50 – 10:20 to check in with each other and share insights from scripture passage in a Lectio Divina format.

Children’s Church Annual Planning Retreat

The shared mandate (i.e. mission statement, values, goals) of CMUC Children & Youth ministries is not a static document but a dynamic work-in-progress that gives us a sense of common purpose and direction in our work with children and youth at CMUC.  Each year in June parents, grandparents, educators, ministers, volunteers, supportive congregants are welcome to join us for a day of retreat and community-building as we revisit the basis of our important calling.  Hope to see you there.

Meet the Staff, Volunteers, Mentors, Spiritual Guides, and Friends to our Children and Youth 

*All staff and volunteers are fully screened with Police Record Checks and are trained in the United Church’s Child Protection Policy, Duty to Care 

Tama Ward                                                      Minister of Children, Youth and Families                                                   Tama has an MDiv from McMaster Divinity College in Ontario and for the past 25 years has worked with both Protestant and Catholic communities to nurture creative and relevant connection for children, youth and congregations with biblical narrative.  She joined the staff at CMUC in January 2018 and is excited to be a part of the open-hearted, open-minded vision of this dynamic community.

Contact:  604-803-1195 (text or phone), tama@canadianmemorial.org (Email), @TamaWard (Twitter), Tama Ward (Facebook),

Mary Toth                                                        Director of Early Childhood Faith Formation

 

Contact Mary here. 

Sarah Lyons                     Youth Group Programming Assistant

In her own words Sarah describes “the opportunity to equip teens with the spiritual and interpersonal skills to navigate life with compassion and care for self and others” as “the greatest calling”. Sarah is a person of deep personal Christian commitment and with a background in psychotherapy, food systems, gardening and cooking, contemplative prayer, labyrinth facilitation, event organizing and retreat leading.

Michelle Cobban                        Tot Drop-In Coordinator Godly Play Volunteer

 

Stephen Tanner (Godly Play volunteer)

Sheila   Cook (Godly Play volunteer)

Robyn Williams  (Burrard St. Story Guild volunteer artistic director)

Joanne Brewster  (Youth Group Volunteer)